My favourite is a spooning position. Anna Breslaw Writer. Often one partner is more reluctant than another partner. It takes a certain kind of maturity to have anal sex. Good luck fellas! We used Vaseline, but my boyfriend later realized that it deadens sensation on the skin, which was obviously helpful for my asshole but bad for his orgasm. Close search.
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Fast movements should only be made by experts, because though it may not seem so, the rectum is much more fragile than the vagina. Learn to consciously relax your anus muscles during anal. Most importantly - NEVER put anything that has been inside the anus, into the vagina without washing it thoroughly with soap. Using anal plugs is a fantastic way to introduce anal penetration without the fear of thrusting or friction. Either way is a hundred percent fine, and if he keeps pressuring you when you have made it clear that it is not on the table, tell him to suck it. They come in a petite size and are perfect for beginners. If you really want to amp up the sensation, O'Reilly suggests playing with a sex accessory, like a vibrating penis ring.